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Just to tell y’all beautiful trans ladies. As a man some of yall girls are hot. And i personally wouldn’t have a problem dating a yall. My girlfriend is trans but I’ve always been curious as to what makes yall trans so that’s why I searched this to get a better understanding. And I’m commenting also because I see a lot of stories in this comment section. I don’t know if this comment will give y’all hope and strength to move forward. But there are men. That are willing to love yall stay strong and beautiful ladies.

ignorig dysphoria is like ignoring that red light on the car's pannel and covering it with black tape... it doesn't really turn that light of... AND DON'T SOLVE THE PROBLEM EITHER. The engine is going to break if it is still ignores... in human terms: burnout, anxiety, pannic attacks, etcetera etcetera etcetera.

I'm starting whatever journey this is and it's scary as hell. My denial is triggered by my dysphoria. It's hard when you are generally accepted in society is if you "pass". I was a beautiful blonde girl and I'm wondering why cant I just be happy with that? I want to be that beautiful blonde girl and also that masculine quiet confident muscular man. I don't even know where to begin. I just know I don't match. It doesn't help that I don't have many supportive friends or family.

I had to realize that I wasn’t being fair to myself. I didn’t treat myself like I would anyone else in my position. My big breakthrough was taking things from “I fuck up everything I touch” to “It’s okay to make a mistake.” It sounds simple but it actually made me cry the first time I said it. I internalized other people’s feelings or opinions and made them true for myself. After that, it was easier. I want to take the steps to be more feminine right now. I have as long as I can remember. So what if I regret it? Well, it’s okay to make mistakes as long as you and your loved ones are okay with the consequences. It turns out we were.

What is this guy even talking about?

Can I start taking HRT Without changing something in my body. Because I live in a non tolerated society.

I kept doubting myself (even after coming out with no reasons to doubt it) until my mum just straight said I should keep experimenting until I'm sure when I'd already been doing exactly that for a 2 months before. I DON'T WANT TO BECOME A MAN and want to be a woman, pretty clear case if you ask me.

What if Z is a KGB agent turning men to women?

I am from czech republic and there are maybe three doctors that specify in diagnosing transgender patients and if you tell them you have problems with substances, they won’t help you with your gender dysphoria either, saying the substance abuse made you have dysphoria. I have been out for years and am still misgendered by family and most of the people around me, so I started getting anything I could think of just to make myself a bit more distracted and prevent myself from commuting that… you know… It helps us even when society rejects us. And then they reject us for taking substances. As a trans person, it is hard to be yourself and accepted by society

Maybe I need a need a new super suit

Yeah u are right . Thank you ...❤

Ahhh so they aren’t women then

Et je me demande aussi par quelle ironie de l'Histoire on est passé de l'angoisse de castration au désir de castration! C'est fascinant!

Je me demande quand on va enfin s'apercevoir que le serment d'Hippocrate des médecins leur interdit d'enlever de organes sains et de stériliser définitivement des ados et de jeunes adultes. Scandale sanitaire en cours!!!

I think my egg is going to crack soon so ashame of it so confused i question my self all the time

I was in denial for so long, but I developed an eating disorder and I just couldn’t ignore it anymore

I’ve had two that didn’t. The first time I knew going in, they had already been on HRT a year when I met them. The second time they came out after we had been together two years. Dumped me both times saying it was too much change and they needed to be alone. I tried everything. When my ex fiancee left me I was completely drained financially and emotionally from supporting them through it. Bailed as soon as they realized their family wouldn’t disown them NEVER put someone’s transition before yourself. Don’t put anyone besides your children before yourself, this could go for anything. I’m not saying everyone leaves, but no one is guaranteed to stay just because you sacrificed for them. And for god’s sake, HRT ISNT AN EXCUSE TO CONSISTENTLY BE MEAN

I was really in denial for a while and when I finally was like shit I’m a guy I was feeling so much confusion. But the more I’ve experimented the last few months the more comfortable I feel and the more sure I am. Even though I didn’t really have obvious signs in early childhood, I’ve struggled with gender since I was a younger teenager. Everyone in my life says I’m crazy, but the more I transition, the more this sense of confidence and peacefulness is growing

Years of struggle( about 30 for me). Thats right. DR Z is totally right in my opinion. ...And it can become so difficult to crack the eggshell. I realized that I hated myself all the time, for my inner feelings who or what I really was. I had to figure this out all by myself, kinda. I could for so long not accept who I am, because I knew, that my social environment would not accept this. Especially the longest lasting friends I had at that time, and for sure MY PARENTS. I knew how they were thinking, cause they were talking. And I can listen. I remember my mom once giving a comment about "fake/artificial vag***. How nasty, unnatural and disgusting it is as such, and having to lube before act. When i was about 10 yrs old she explained me what affectation was, in a very condescending way. It horrified me. And I can tell you, at that time I was a bit affected in my behavior. For sure. So I disciplined myself NOT to. I became an actor . A good one. Marionette of beloved ones. I felt like an empty bucket. I was lonely. Being attracted to women, made me even feel confused, about who I am, making me even harder denying my Identity, knowing just one thing In the realm of my sexualitiy and intimate relationship: PLUG & SOCKET- It took me a long time to figue out that I had to differentiate identity and sexual orientation. Nobody ever taught me this. Finally I cracked myself open with the chemical hammer. I knew I had to. Some weeks went by and I bacame sooo confident. suddenly I had a transgenderGF, because i have chosen her. Even if our relationship was very difficult, on and off, actually toxic, I know she always had a crush on me and the first few years since then were the best of my life so far. But I still had to finish my studies...and i did it. Unfortunately in a still gender conform way. Because of fear. From then on things changed rapidly. First I moved back to my hometown, I had to live at my parents house for some month, while doing practice one year for my professin as a pharmacist and finding an affordable flat. My GF followed me and moved in. I introduced her to my parents by then, and already this must have been a real big shock for them. And me PENDING, sittin next to them, still not being able to come out, to show them who I really am. But I planned it. And I finally confronted them as the girl who I am. No letters. no hints, no warning. I was on holiday and arranged a meeting. When I approached them I coud see them from far away. They didnt see me until I reached them. AND THEN THE BAD THUNDERSTORM BROKE IN OVER ME : Mom:"TAKE OFF THAT LIPSTICK" pulling out a tissue. While crying and screaming at me like somebody stabbed her. All this in really dense publicity, prvoking the worst scene possible for me. Actually destroying my make-up. My passing got really corrupted by that. Then we went to the beach where my GF was waiting there with her son. And then my parents started to ignore me really hard as much as possible. This was the worst day in my whole life so far for me. And from then on things got worse for me. I got really depressed . And I still am. I broke up my relationship with Katrin almoast a year ago. As long as I have leisure time and dont have to work, i want to sleep. These days right now, I have no motivation in my life anymore. Not enough to get up in the morning if I dont have to. Cant find my "start" button anymore. Wasting away. Just a shadow of myself. And i need professional help. But i cant find the button for that either. Im so stuck and frozen in procrastination.

"You are existing, you are not living." Yup, that hits like a ton of bricks to hear outside of yourself lol

Actually I lost 5 pounds already but I stopped drinking and not excising

I’m intersex I can be both. There is not a split in my mind. I identify as a trans man. God blessed me with natural female parts. I dress in masculine and have male primary prosthetic and am naturally small breasted. I see myself as male but I also am happy with what I have. I prefer masculine pronouns and have no need for surgery or testosterone because I can be both. There are no rules, the main reason I don’t pursue gender affirming care is I want to keep my parts in case I get to pro create.

I think for me it was my dad telling me to man up and not to be emotional that made it harder to realise why I felt so weird and different. It took until I was 17 to realise it was my gender dysphoria and now I feel worse because I know what I need to do to be happy but it feels so out of reach.

I'm AFAB, I don't feel woman, I don't feel man, I would LOVE to *feel* like a woman, and I definitly do NOT wanna *be* a man. I don't know what I feel or how to describe it. I don't wanna transition too... And yet I feel dysphoria and it hurts a lot.

I'm binge watching your videos

Thank you dr Z, needed this message today! All hypnosis is self hypnosis, the real ones will know 🤣

Dear lady, feelings are feelings. They can be delusional. Illusional. People may be confused( I dont mean sexuality exlusively here). Strwabery can taste different during various days of your cycle or pregrancy. Tastes change- some people vomit on the things they used to adore and so on. Some individuals question their identity immensely: who i am what i like. Just because it changes a lot!!! Some people come to hate their bodies in a lot of respects. Not just sexual. Again there maniacs and pedofilics would you advise to focus on their feelings as well? Thats teuly insane.human mode of existing is MINDFULNESS not feelings. Besides what about gender fluidity? Detransitioning?? Gender dysforia with dissociative identity disorder??? You look truly terrific. But neither your glasses nor your magnificent lipstick make you who you really are. If transgender always stays transgender then you are just you and not what you present yourself.😘

Why are trans people always begging for money on social media to pay for their dong amputation if they're so brilliant and making a lot of money? And why are they trying to mandate taxpayers subsidize these kinds of aesthetic surgeries?

Well, I had that day the breast dysphoria hit so hard I couldn't breath bc I couldn't stand my chest going up and down with the natural volume there, I was experiencing an anxiety crisis bc of this. This only alleviated when I weared my binder to hide them, then the anxiety went away and I could breath again... I think I never felt a dysphoria episode like this, before or after.

I have autism, I woul love to see a video from you about ASD and gender non conformity and transgender.

Доктор ж вы полон дерма!!

Leave the kids alone

Will it change some off those things if you use it while in puberty?

Why does she look like the babysitter from cat in the hat mixed with edna

People need to express themselves however they want to, as long as they conduct themselves properly :))

Everyone who is trans and has ever considered Dr Z’s videos helpful along the way needs to support her by buying her book! She does what she does on a daily basis because she truly cares about the trans community. She has provided us all with caring, understanding and guidance in a world that is very hostile towards us. She is definitely someone to look up to and dare I say trans leader and guru like no other. Please let her know how grateful we are for all she has done for us. By supporting her as she selflessly supports us on a daily basis. I can’t think of a kinder or sweeter person more deserving of the trans community’s support.

You are such a caring and sweet lady for caring about all of us as much as you do so I’ll definitely be buying a copy based on that alone. You have done so much for all of us with all the videos you’ve posted. Also, you are so beautiful without your giant glasses. Please do more videos in the future without them. You need to show the world you are just as beautiful on the outside as you are on the inside. I think that’s also a perfect analogy for what we all are as trans men and women in the trans community. Showing the world our inner and outer beauty just by being ourselves and not covering up who we really are. We are truly blessed to have your guidance from beginning to end for each of our personal trans journeys.

I'm 19, and I've felt a certain disconnect from myself for roughly 6 years. Living in a conservative area, I have been uncomfortable with myself due to judgment. I frequently ask myself why I couldn't be leading that life. The alienation I have with myself has existed for a few years ( approximately 6) there's some stuff I wish I could do beforehand ( ie: going on the Appalachian trail,etc)

Sex and gender are the same. You really talking about traits and preferences.

Ok edna. You're incredible.

Actually, 😊 it really just depends on your genetics honestly and what hormones feel like doing! Everyone’s experience is different, but here’s mine So I’ve always knew that I was trans from really young age and I started transitioning at around 11 I came out around 7/8 I started taking puberty blockers at around 12/13 and estrogen at 15/16 I can definitely confirmed that because of mones I definitely have shrunk. I used to be 5’ 4 & 1/2 maybe 3/4 however now I’m literally 5, 2 and I’m 16 now, so LMAO yeah that does really happen! Just wanted to confirm. Again, everyone’s experience will be different however, just take your time don’t stress about it and don’t let other people Have you spiraling and dwelling on the internet about it! LMFAOOO NOT! a smart move at all!💀 Just talk to your doctor and any trans 🏳️‍⚧️ friend if possible about your own personal experience/ issues.💖💗💝

I’m not on HRT yet, but hearing about this from some other trans women were what made it truly click that I’m likely trans. I’m hoping I see improvement on HRT but it’s months away potentially. People need to be taught about this - not just gender dysphoria, but about mental health in general. I went through 29 years not knowing what was wrong with me & it was mere happenstance that a bunch of “You’re probably trans” spears pierced my armour at the same time & then I stumbled into hearing basically this exact thing.

I would have been in the first camp if I hadn't informed myself as well as I did and if I hadn't had a fit of dysphoria after trying out a dress before I even questioned my gender. It learned me to pace myself before I even realized I was a girl.

It's not easy to reach out to others most of theme want even speak out to others are they keep to themselves

i experienced intense gender dysphoria my whole life until the past year! i lived as a transgender child, teen, and adult. i think that my trans experience is still a big part of my identity and a big part of the way i currently experience my gender. i don’t REGRET transitioning at all, but im not the person i was in the past! its okay to figure out that maybe you’re not trans. i’m living life now as myself still, even after hormone therapy, and im happy. i WAS happy transitioning, and i am still happy now. whatever path you go on, and however you change, you will still be you. you will still have options to explore the world and explore the kind of person you are! don’t die wondering! 🩷

1. I really appreciate and love your videos. You really are such a great person i hope everyone who maybe even is curious about Gender Dysphoria discovers. I think I am group 2? So. When i was little of course trans wasnt something I even knew about. (Im 26.) But i remember occasionally playing pretend outside with my cousin who I was very close with (who is a girl) and sometimes i would love to take the role of a female character and Id be REALLY happy. But then sometimes i played the male character role and it was normal. I continued all of my life until i think i was out of high school without thinking of gender dysphoria. I was sexually molested countless times growing up which im not sure has anything to do with it or not.. After high school i met a friend online who has gender dysphoria like i do. We always felt maybe we would have liked to of been born a girl but we would never transition because to me at least, it was weird. Probably thought this way cause the town i live in and the people i live with. But for years online i had a fake persona as a girl and just never thought that maybe i did that cause it was who i really am. Well recent ish i finally got so depressed to a point where i tried to kill myself. I survived and had guilt that i had put my dad through that as he was hurt. So thought to kyself "I wont ever try to kill myself again. Ill just live for him even if i am miserable." But then i remember onw night asking myself "What would make me happy in life right now?" And well. My thought was "If i was born a girl." Obviously i cant change that but then really thought to myself "Well I can transition." So i did a lot of research about trans and discovered about gender dysphoria and came to accept that maybe this is me? I came out to everyone. To my parents and siblings they accepted it. Even my dad who really doesn't agree with lgbtq+ came to be my most accepting family member. Some didnt take it too well and ive even lost the closeness with people i was originally inseparable from because they distanced themselves. I was 200 lbs at the point of my suicide and my motivation to transition, pass and be pretty im close to the high 160s. 174 lbs atm. Well. Ive set appointments up before to start HRT but due to having no way to my appointment (its a 3 hr drive) and unsupportive people who could take me- i never did. Finally i have a set date and a way there. But i still feel like i might regret transitioning later. But most times i feel like I will be happy. My biggest fear is not passing but at the same time i think ill pass just fine. Im not sure. Evwn as i type this i feel taboo for having dysphoria and having it set to transition. But i continue because i have for the most part wished i was a girl. Maybe im just scared of how ill he percieved. Im fearful i only want to transition because for the most part i havent experienced many romantic relationships or much of a social life. I guess we will see....

Yeah I just found out I'm actually trans the other week and not just a cross dresser

my pandora box opened during covid pandemic, I understood that I never felt a woman... I started social transitioning ftm... opened again, I understood I don't feel a man, started seing myself as a non binary male... after again understanding gender didn't even makes sense to me and I'm just agender... But then I started to ubderstand myself as a non-female woman and gave up the social name and the transition... and them I'm feeling social dysphoria again and feeling the need to be called he/him again and using social name... I'm so confuse it hurts, I'm autistic and this inconstance makes me feel really bad, it's disorienting. I'm declaring myself gender-fluid but I don't know if it is my case or if I'm just a stubborn non-binary...

Is our HRT breast growth based on the history of the size of our female family member’s breasts? Please let me know.